Sure, our family could babysit and I do ask when it is needed but I don’t want to ask all the time.
So we have become creative with our date nights at home after our daughter goes to bed. (This was my husband’s suggestion for the list.) 10.
The reality is that playing emotional detective usually only succeeds at doing one thing: Making the girl go absolutely crazy.
My suggestion is rather than trying to “solve the mystery”, assume that things are the way you want them to be. Worrying what the other person thinks usually just creeps them out…
But deeper than that, what you’re hoping is for me to confirm that I see things the way you want them to be – “he loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, etc.” You ever play those games? It’s a sense that you don’t really believe that it could be true, but you really want it to be.
Share your favorite dating memory with each other over dinner. Dress as a character from a movie and you pick the character for each other (think Tom Cruise in Risky Business). Thirteen months after having our little one arrived reality has set in. Good, trustworthy babysitters are hard to find and they are expensive. Play it so that the loser has to do the dishes or even a fun strip version. Wear your favorite lingerie under your normal clothes. Don’t be afraid to ask or put in on the family calendar. Here are 30 date night ideas that you can do at home after the little ones are tucked into bed and SOUND ASLEEP. Have dinner in the backyard, patio, or your front lawn.