I'm not bitter, I've friend-zoned girls I wasn't interested in myself.
Give and take."Honestly, who in this day and age just comes onto a DATING site to meet just a friend?
"I live in hope that men will stop emailing hoping to change my mind Actually, I am not looking for emails at all....................
I have my profile listed as "friends" - "forums" is currently not an option.
Especially since they got probably 2052052 more messages waiting.(and so do you ;) )This is not just a dating site otherwise there would be no option for just looking for talk/email or friends.Stop being so concerned about what other people are doing and pay attention to your own life.Plus in all likelihood you will judge me as 'bad' or 'wrong' for some of the things in my behavior limitations so I am not going to be direct with them, you have to read my mind, and know it's inherent in my definition of 'friends'.""IOW I want the power to control your behavior towards giving me what I want, but I have no desire for the responsibility and possible negative judgments. BUT, will take advantage of "dating", meaning let the guy pay the first couple of times.....Therefore I go through the back door and offer you the false gift of friendship. If the man says lets go hang out and says "lets go dutch"....she can pull the "I cant beleive you asked me out and want me to pay!!! ....she can pull the "I do want a friend, I want a lover and a friend, hoping to find both"If you come across a woman looking for friends, call her bluff, ask her out and when the bill comes say...."well here is my half"..see what kind of reaction you get.....1.